Back at home, my friends are all going on Fall Break. Most are going home, some are visiting friends, some are on vacation.
My "Fall Break" was a lot shorter than theirs. Ceca took the other BYP volunteers and me to Sarajevo, Bosnia & Herzegovina for a four-day trip. On Thursday afternoon, we piled into a van driven by Željko, our fearless pilot whose driving I've gained a lot of respect for after this trip. We cruised through the flat fields of Vojvodina, the province around Novi Sad, until we found ourselves at the foot of a mountain range. We crossed a bridge on the Drina (not this one) and passed through the border checkpoint without any problems. Just like that, we were in another country.
We stopped for a bathroom break, and I stretched my legs and enjoyed the scenery. I glanced up the nearest hill and asked Ceca, "Is that an old fortress?" She looked up and answered, almost dismissively, "Yes, yes, probably Turkish. They're on every hill here." I'm not sure exactly when the fortress was built, but it's probably older than the United States.
The ruins, slightly obscured in fog
We spent most of the rest of our ride to Sarajevo singing along to whatever music came out of our laptops. I recall that "Party in the USA" was popular as we rode down the Bosnian side of the Drina (Yes, I sung along too).
It was just after sundown when we entered the Sarajevo valley. All around us the hillsides were lit up with apartment buildings, houses, stores, and mosques. Though Sarajevo is roughly the size of Novi Sad (give or take a bit-- reliable census data is hard to come by here) it felt larger upon our arrival, simply because we could see all of it at once.
We dropped our bags off at our hostel and went for dinner to a restaurant that serves traditional Bosnian food. I don't recall exactly what I ate, but I remember it was delicious. The restaurant also had traditional Bosnian folk music by a live band. Some of the other diners were really into the music, and even danced along.
Dancing on the tables. Photo credit: Dominique
The next morning, we set out on a tour of the city. Our tour guide, Amir, was quick to paint a portrait of Sarajevo as a multicultural city. The first few stops on our tour were to a Catholic cathedral, a Serbian Orthodox church, and the largest and most prominent of the city's multitude of mosques.
Serbian Orthodox church
Catholic cathedral
One shot of the mosque-- too big to get in one picture!
We also stopped by the corner where Gavrilo Princip, the Bosnian Serb nationalist, shot Archduke Franz Ferdinand and his wife, leading to the first World War. Amir explained to us that, depending on who ruled Sarajevo, the monument at this space has historically alternated between a memorial to the Archduke and a monument to Princip. At one point, there were even footprints in the sidewalk so that you could literally stand where Princip was. Today, a compromise plaque marks the site, simply stating the facts.
Neutral wording
Latin Bridge, roughly where the Archduke was
Getting ready to charge the Archduke's car.
We walked up a hill and past a fountain where, if you drink, you'll come back to Sarajevo (but you have to believe in legends, Amir reminded us).
Needless to say, I drank. Photo credit: Dominque
We all drank from the fountain. Mom and Dad, I don't know when I'm going back to Sarajevo, but know that it's in the plans sometime.
Further up the hill was what used to be a public park. Amir told us that when he was a kid, he used to sled down the slope. Now, that's entirely impossible. During the Siege of Sarajevo from 1992 to 1995, Serb snipers picked off anyone who was within range, and their range included the traditional city graveyards. The citizens of Sarajevo used this park and many like it to bury their dead. After the war ended, it simply wasn't feasible to transfer all of the bodies to the old graveyard, so the park was officially converted.
This was the first graveyard I had visited that wasn't covered in crosses. Mostly Muslims were buried here. All were either killed during the war, or relatives of those who died.
Extending up the hill. Usually, Muslim graves point toward Mecca. Because of the circumstances, the bodies aren't oriented in any particular direction.
A small creek runs through the graveyard
The inscription is from the Quran, and reads, roughly, "And do not say about those who have died in the way of Allah, 'They are dead!' No, they are alive, but you do not perceive it." The fleur-de-lis at the bottom is a symbol of Bosnia.
Visible from the graveyard: a mosque, the Orthodox church, and the Catholic Cathedral.
At one point when we were talking about the siege of Sarajevo, Amir mentioned his own experience. "I consider myself lucky," he said, "I only lost my father, my grandmother, my cousin, and our apartment." I wasn't quick to agree with him about luck, but compared to the 11,000 who died, I suppose he was.
Though the city has been largely fixed up since the siege, it still has its scars. Amir, who, like the other Bosnians and Serbians I've met, appreciates dark humor, told us that for a time, Sarajevans referred to their city as the "Swiss cheese city."
In the afternoon, after a nice large lunch of ćevapčići, we visited a professor from the philosophy faculty at the University of Sarajevo. We discussed the role of identity during and after the conflict. Before, under Tito's rule, all three religions lived more or less in harmony. When Yugoslavia began falling apart, the national/ethnic identities that Tito had suppressed came surging forward. Though Catholics/Croats, Orthodox/Serbs, and Muslims/Bosniaks are indistinguishable by looks, they quickly found ways to differentiate themselves. The primary way was by name: a man named Amir or Sulejmanović was probably an ethnic Muslim, for example.
The professor told us about his own experience living in Sarajevo. His name was slightly Serbian, so he was somewhat ostracized within his own faculty. But when his young son, who has an even more Serbian name, was in preschool, the teacher treated him far differently from the others. He would get punished more often than the other kids, with time-outs where he had to sit in a dark room by himself. When the professor finally found out about his treatment, the preschool teacher claimed that it was the child's natural agressive Serbian blood, and not her fault at all.
The irony in all of this is that the child is incredibly ethnically mixed. Croat, Serb, Bosniak, Turk, like many other Bosnians, he's all of the above. His discrimination wasn't even ethnic-- the kid just had the wrong name.
Amazingly, Yentli has a friend who lives in Sarajevo. They met when she was an exchange student at Yentli's high school in Lancaster, PA. The two met back up, and we all joined her friends in a café. Our curfew was unfortunately early (~10:00PM) both nights, so we didn't get to hang out with them as much as we'd have liked.
On Saturday morning, we visited the Tunnel Museum. During the war, Serb forces nearly completely surrounded the city. The UN struck a bargain with them: the UN would control the airport and allow aid relief as long as they ensured that no Bosnians went across the airstrip to the free Bosnian territory. The Sarajevans then dug an 800-meter tunnel under the airport, through which they smuggled food, people, and weapons. One side of this tunnel is preserved.
The house hiding the entrance to the tunnel
The tunnel itself
We then visited the Historical Museum, which was housing a special exhibit on the siege. There was also a "Wall of Truth" where Bosnians posted photographs, messages, and information about friends and families who had died during the war. It was originally timed to coincide with Ratko Mladić's plea at the ICTY, but it has been left up since then.
Flag of the Republic of Bosnia and Herzegovina (not the current political entity) with battle scars
"Watch out-- sniper!"
A European watchdog mission accidentally left their satellite phone when they fled during the war. This phone was the only link that the President of BiH had to the outside world during the siege.
Hyperinflation.
Part of the Wall of Truth
More of the Wall of Truth
Jacob and I pose with Tito
For the rest of the day, we had free time. We explored the city and did a bit of shopping. Walking down a major touristy street, we heard some singing/chanting. Glancing around the corner, we found some sort of march with people waving the Turkish flag. The marchers were shouting something in what I presume was Turkish (though even if it were in Bosnian, I wouldn't have understood) but all I understood was "Allahu Akbar," the global refrain of "God is great." I'm still unsure what the protest was about.
It struck me that if we had a group of sixty Muslims carrying a flag and shouting "Allahu Akbar" in the United States, the media would freak out about it. Here, it's not even news.
We also stopped by the large mosque during prayer time to hear the muezzin's call. This was the first time that I had heard the call to prayer in real life, and I found it quite beautiful.
On the way back, I noticed a crate of Jelen Pivo (literally "deer beer," one of the more popular brands in Serbia) at a gas station. I realized that I hadn't noticed either Jelen or Lav, its major competitor, served or advertised anywhere in Sarajevo. What was different about that gas station? Simple. It was in Republika Srpska, the Serb-dominated sub-national entity, while Sarajevo was in the Federation of Bosnia and Herzegovina, the Muslim and Croat section. It was telling that the rift between the two regions is so deep that they don't even serve the same beer. Also noticeable when we crossed into Republika Srpska territory: suddenly, everything was written in Serbian cyrillic, not the latinic script common to Croatian, Bosnian, and Serbian. From names to drinks to alphabets, everything has an ethnic connotation.
On Saturday morning, Dominique and I woke up early. We met up at Futoška Pijaca at 6 AM (šest sati ujutro, na srpskom) and grabbed a bus to Najlon (Nylon) Pijaca, a flea market.
A few of our classmates from our Serbian lessons had gone a couple weeks ago, and they came back with a tuba. Dominique and I didn't intend to join their brass ensemble, but we were curious to see what we could find.
After consulting one of my coworkers, we found out that we were supposed to go very early, but we still showed up before most of the stalls even opened. We wandered around and into a small smoky café, where I grabbed a coffee, more to heat my hands than to wake me up.
After waiting a bit longer, we walked around all of the stalls. Apparently on Saturdays, Najlon focuses more on clothes. But there were plenty of other interesting things there. If you can imagine it, it was at Najlon. Even packaged candy and detergents-- I have no idea how the vendors got those.
I was mostly looking around, but I had one or two vague goals. One, I was always looking for interesting books. Two, my friend Seth's father asked for a Yugoslav/Serbian police or army badge. Dominique was looking around at old cameras.
I found a book of anti-NATO graffiti collected from Belgrade during the bombing. The price I was offered was 100 dinars. I countered with 50 and the vendor immediately accepted-- I could have gone even lower. Clearly, the surcharge for being a foreigner is more than 100%. Still, I don't regret my purchase or spending a few cents extra on it.
Dominique found lots of old cameras, but decided against buying any.
Future Pulitzer winner.
Showing off the special features
I tried to haggle down the price of a Serbian Army pin that I found, but it didn't work. "They [other vendors] sell for 500," the man said in simple Serbian, hoping that I'd understand. I didn't believe him until I found the exact same pin for 500 dinars elsewhere in the market, just as he said. Three hundred dinars later, I was the proud owner of a slightly-broken, possibly replica* Serbian Army pin.
The man had more pins than he had room for.
*Both this vendor and the 500-dinar vendor assured me that theirs were authentic, and each pointed to different signs of their authenticity. The 300-dinar vendor also had one that was clearly a replica to show for comparison.
Seth, forward this picture to your dad.
Declaring ourselves successful, we rode the bus home and napped. I napped on and off for the rest of the day, while Dominique went out later for another round of shopping, this time at proper stores.
I don't have a solid theme to write about this week, so instead I'm posting a lot of pictures, as requested. Nikola borrowed my camera and made a short video explaining the family, so I'll probably post that sometime soon.
Milošević-era propaganda: "Serbia, keep your heads up!"
The five of us at Nenad Čanak's breakfast, with his niece
A horse-drawn cart. It later passed me, driven by two Roma men.
The Catholic cathedral. The tile roof is exceptionally beautiful.
Dušan, the younger brother, in front of a giant piece of ham.
Nikola and Dušan showing off the watches I gave them for their birthdays
The view down the street from the CZOR office balcony
A typical Socialist-era apartment building (Not my house... I still need to get a good picture of that)
Preparing for a play with the Inclusive Youth Club
Today marks eleven years since the one-day revolution that ousted President Slobodan Milošević from power.
There aren't any festivities, no celebrations, not even any commentary from major politicians. Aside from a few news stories, it's a typical Wednesday.
It's not that people here don't consider the 5th of October Revolution a good thing-- most agreed with it at the time, and most still do now. But it didn't go far enough.
The story of the October 5th Revolution is quite inspiring. Отпор/Otpor, a resistance movement whose name is literally "resistance," worked a grassroots campaign to ensure fair elections and to show that the Milošević regime was vulnerable. The opposition parties put aside their differences, and the Democratic Opposition of Serbia fielded a single compromise candidate, Vojislav Koštunica. When Milošević attempted to steal the election, Otpor and the DOS called him out on it. Two weeks later, one million people from all over the country showed up on the streets of Belgrade. The police, after some scuffles, and the army supported the protesters, and the courts declared Koštunica President.
This is the part of the story that's supposed to go, "and they all lived happily ever after." But they didn't. The fall of Milošević didn't bring the fall of corruption and bureaucratic hindrances, or restore pride in the idea of Serbia, or guarantee all Serbians a living wage. It didn't even keep Yugoslavia from disintegrating further: in 2006, Montenegro became independent; in 2008, Kosovo declared independence (current status subject to debate).
The phrase I've most often heard when I ask about the legacy of the revolution is, "We're still waiting for October 6th." The revolution happened, but for the average Serbian, not too much is different. The sweeping changes promised by the DOS were never implemented.
In many countries, major democratic revolutions are turned into national holidays. Here, there's simply no reason to celebrate October 5th.
Edit: President Boris Tadić spoke on the anniversary. He disagrees with the Serbians I talked to, and instead claims that Serbia has moved forward "драматично" (dramatically). Even he concedes that he's disappointed by the lack of progress in some areas, especially the country's "system of values," but notes that it's only been just over a decade.
(B92 English)
(Radio 021 [Serbian])
The second ever Serbian Gay Pride Parade was scheduled for Sunday, October 2 in Belgrade, but it was cancelled by the government at nearly the last minute.
Back at home, the Pride parade is no big deal. We have a few counter-protesters, but they were always peaceful, quiet, and holding up signs misinterpreting select passages of the Bible. My mayor, my friends, and I marched last year.
But there's nowhere like Chapel Hill here in Serbia. Most of the Serbians I've met here were ambivalent about gay rights, or even supportive, but I have to remember that I have the mother of all sampling biases: I'm talking to English-speaking people who have the patience to deal with an American, many of whom are affiliated with NGOs working for other minority rights. The graffiti, as always, shows a rougher side: I remember that during our first week here, I passed some graffiti that read "Ово није земља педера": "This is not a country of faggots."
Last year in Belgrade, six thousand hooligans and right-wing counter-protesters attacked the parade and their riot police protection. They trashed much of the city, and over one hundred cops were injured. This year was expected to be just as bad, and the police were extremely hesitant to provide protection again.
Officially, all major public events in Belgrade this weekend were banned, both the Pride Parade and its several peaceful counter-marches, for Family Values and similar ideologies. In reality, the government caved in to the threat of anti-gay violence.
I haven't faced much prejudice against myself personally as an American. I look plausibly Serbian (enough to fool a few Serbians here) until I attempt to speak the language, but even then, the default assumption is that I'm British. People here seem surprised that an American would visit Serbia, let alone Novi Sad. The most negative reaction I've gotten was from a bus driver, who said to a group of us that he likes us but doesn't like our government. I can respect that. If I mention that I'm from Северна Каролина (North Carolina), they generally respond by either hiding their nonrecognition or by eagerly replying, "Ah, Michael Jordan!"
No one has even attempted to associate me with the NATO bombings during the Bosnian and Kosovo wars. Everybody I've run into has, like the bus driver, clearly been able to separate American bombers from American individuals. I've run into several Bosnian Serbs who were eager to set the record straight for me about the war. One, who identified himself as a refugee, told me that his father, uncles, and grandfathers all served under General Mladić, who is now spending some quality time in The Hague. Mladić was a hero, said the refugee, who is now in his early 20s and studies computer science at a local university. "Do I look like a war criminal?" his friend asked. Standing together outside a hole-in-the-wall fast food place, we all looked like we could have been Princeton students.
This weekend, I went on two excursions from Novi Sad. The first was on Saturday morning. I woke up at 5:30 so that I could get ready to catch a bus to Bačko Petrovo Selo, a small village with a population of roughly 7,000, of which 70% are ethnic Hungarians. Igor, the other volunteer, and I were there to document and help Attila, a resident, and his crew of volunteers rebuild old benches in the local park, and pick up trash along the riverside. As far as I could tell, Attila was the only one who spoke any English. Many of the volunteers spoke roughly as much Serbian as I do, and since Hungarian and Serbian are entirely unrelated languages, I didn't understand a word they said in their native tongue. I wasn't alone: Igor spoke no Hungarian either. I felt like an outsider more at that moment than at any other time in my trip.
Volunteers assembling a bench
BPS has only about one or two blocks of "downtown"-- the rest is houses and fields and farms. Igor and I went for a quick walk down to the riverside, where we watched farmers ferrying their tractors and other equipment across: BPS is too small to justify a bridge. Still, they had a football (soccer) field, and what seemed like an active kids' league. Igor explained to me that most small villages have their own football teams, and they often travel locally to play each other.
Ferrying farm equipment
The second excursion was with the other BYP kids. We piled into a van to Subotica, the second largest city in Vojvodina, after Novi Sad. There, we met up (in front of the McDonald's; we joked that it was the only place the Americans would be able to find) with two of Ceca's former students and a local tour guide, who was leading a group of Serbian bankers around the old town hall. All of the signs in Subotica are written in three languages: Serbian cyrillic, Hungarian, and Croatian. The city is only about 10km (6 miles) away from the border with Hungary, and Subotica prides itself on being multiethnic: Hungarians are the plurality, followed by Serbs and Croats and Bunjevci, a small Slavic Catholic ethnic group that is distinct from Croats (not quite sure how).
Old town hall
One of the other BYP-ers asked what the oldest building in Subotica was, and our companions showed us the Franciscan Monastery, which they said was built in the early 1700s. They told us that Subotica didn't have any really old buildings, which amused me and reminded me of a saying I'd heard: in America, 100 years is a long time; in Europe, 100 miles is a long distance.
Synagogue and Holocaust memorial
We also visited the synagogue, which was pretty run down, but still impressive and beautiful, especially the roof. We weren't allowed inside because of fears that the ceiling would collapse. Subotica had one of the largest Jewish populations in Serbia: roughly 7,000. But only around 1,000 survived the fascist occupation, and now the Jewish community numbers around 200. The synagogue is under renovation, but the population simply isn't enough to keep it open. One option is to do as the synagogue in Novi Sad has done: it's now a community center, where you can go to hear classical and choral music. Indeed, the synagogue at Subotica, when reopened, will double as a Jewish culture center.
Chinese food in Serbia: not that different from Chinese food in the US
After lunch (pretty good Chinese food, though to be honest, I prefer Serbian cuisine. Subotica is known for its delicious gulaš, and I'm a little disappointed that we didn't get to try that) we went to the nearby zoo. For the most part, this was really fun. I especially liked the Meerkat exhibit, and I saw the ugliest camel in the world. There were a few sections that were very depressing. The bear and the leopard were kept in cages about as large as my room, and they both looked sad. I know that this sort of mistreatment is by no means unique to Serbia, or even this part of the world; still, the animal rights activist inside of me hurt a little.
A bear, chillin'
Meerkats. Visitors can go into the glass outpost for a closer look.
We played cards on the lakeside for a while, and then drove back to Novi Sad. One thing that I'm still not used to is just how flat Vojvodina is. You see nothing but grain fields for miles in any direction, spotted with both modern farm equipment and horse-drawn plows. Occasionally there's a tower off in the distance, usually the top of some old chapel.
When I've told people about my volunteer service placement at CZOR, I hadn't been able to give any good details on what I'd be doing on a day-to-day basis. A week into work, this is still true.
On Thursday, I helped scan old documents for a cross-boarder project between Hrvatska i Srbija (Croatia and Serbia). Kids from Vukovar, Croatia, and small towns across the Danube in Serbia gave the project pictures from anywhere from the late 1800s to the late 1990s, and even old documents, including property records and military records. One of the people at CZOR was explaining some of the old Serbian documents to me: one was a record of a discharge from a Yugoslav-run internment camp for Germans at the end of the second World War; one was a list of property seized from ethnic Germans as they fled at the end of the war, and who the property was to be given to (ethnic Serbs, of course). These documents, plus pictures and more, will be going on tour around the former Yugoslavia. I think the point of the traveling exhibit is to demonstrate the common history of Croatia and Serbia, and to show that like any groups of people, they have more commonalities than differences.
On Friday, I marched in a protest against corruption. Not too many people showed up for the march, but since we were walking through the Centar, plenty of people saw us. Milan, another volunteer, did a fantastic job of making sure that all of the local media was covering the event. One radio reporter wanted to get quick statements from all of us, but when she came around to me, all I could say was "Ja govorim malo srpski, izvini." We talked briefly in English, but I think she was too confused as to why I was in Serbia and marching in a protest (still a good question) to use my brief footage. Along the way, we mostly got stares, but we also got a few thumbs up, smiles, and witty comments. "Are you protesting for corruption or against corruption?" joked one man, in Serbian. Another asked if any of the political parties were working with our march-- no, they weren't. Obviously, a single march won't do much to fix the corruption endemic to the Serbian political system, but hopefully it will show corrupt politicians that the people actually care, and show cynical Serbians that there's still time to fix the system.
Also on Friday, I was put to work updating the CZOR website with information about the new Master's degree in youth work and community work at the University of Novi Sad. CZOR was instrumental in setting up the bachelor's level degree, but they want to go even further and push for youth work as a real profession.
Today, Sunday, I went with a group of CZOR volunteers to a home for young people with developmental/behavioral/mental disabilities. We took a bunch of the residents to a local park and played games with them, from a dodgeball variation to word association to a game where you had to guess the animal written on your forehead (I was a tiger). We ended with a mini game of fudbol and giving out paper and cardboard "medals" to all of the participants. I'll gladly admit it: I didn't expect anything like this when I landed in the Belgrade airport. I had a lot of fun, and I can tell that our guests did too. Apparently one of the girls living there has taken it upon herself to learn English and is pretty good by now, so I hope to chat with her and help her improve it further.
There's really no quick way to explain what CZOR does. All of these programs are so different, and they're all related to CZOR's core mission of improving the status of young people within the community.
Also this weekend was my host brothers' birthday party. They were both born in August, but since everyone leaves town during August, the family decided to hold off on the party until this Saturday. The party was held in a "rođendaonica" which translates most literally to "birthday place." There are many of these around town. They each have some sort of play structure, blacklight dance room, and gaming consoles. You bring your own food and drinks and rent out the space, and the girls who work there lead the kids in various activities. Ivan overestimated the amount of drinks we'd need, so we have enough juice now to last us for a month or so (not that I'm complaining at all!).
On the first ride home, Nikola grabbed my arm and looked intensely at my watch, playing with its little light. Through his parents, he told me that he had a watch but it had just broken. Remembering this, I had resolved to get each Nikola and Dušan a watch for their birthdays. This was a little more difficult than I expected. Nikola had received his last watch as a gift, so Ivan and Sandra didn't know exactly where it came from. Ivan suggested Futoška Pijaca, which I had heard Ceca mention, and so on his advice, I wandered in.
The market has dozens of stalls selling everything from fresh fruit and vegetables to various shampoos and small appliances to virtually every kind and size of casual to semicasual clothes-- and, to my luck, precisely one stall selling watches and cell phone accessories. Between my broken Serbian and the vendor's broken English, I was able to get most of my point across: I needed two watches for small boys. I saw one model that was absolutely perfect, and I tried to ask for two of it. But when the vendor got his English-speaking friend to come and translate, I was in for a disappointment. He had only the single watch of that model, and all of the other models were either too girly or not digital. I wasn't sure whether haggling was expected in the market, but the price he offered was good enough that I didn't worry about it. I bought the single watch and continued on my search for a second. I finally found a kids store downtown that had superhero digital watches.
On Saturday morning, before their party, I gave my little host brothers their presents: Nikola got the marketplace watch, which had an alarm and timer and a light-up feature, just like he wanted; Dušan got a Spiderman watch. They both thanked me in Serbian and English, and they've been wearing their watches around since then.
While my host brothers' birthday party was this weekend, my friend and Bridge Year comrade Dominique had her real birthday this Friday. Ceca baked her an extremely impressive pair of cakes: the first was a felled log and the second was a stump. They tasted fantastic, except for the core of banana (disclaimer: I can't stand anything banana-related). On Saturday, after my brothers' party, I joined the rest of the BYP crew for a small get-together at Dominique's host family's riverside summer house, where we ate delicious BBQ (Serbian style, not NC pulled-pork BBQ) and the single most delicious food I've had here: a raspberry cake. I swear, I've never had raspberries that came close to being as delicious as those in this cake. Serbia produces about one third of the world's raspberries, and Novi Sad is pretty much in the center of the most fertile area of Serbia, so I'm fairly sure that these raspberries were local. Either way, they were fantastic.
As the cake was being served, I tried to catch on to a Serbian card game. It didn't use a standard Western European deck of cards, but a Hungarian deck. Most Hungarian decks start at VI and go to X, then Under, Over, King, and Ace; the suits are Hearts, Bells, Leaves, and Acorns. For this game, which was mostly like Spades or Hearts, we didn't use the VIs. There are eight sets of rules, and you go in order. One round, you're trying to win the most cards; another, the fewest; another, not hearts; another, not a certain card (I can't even remember which one); and so on. I finally started catching on by the second or third time we went through each ruleset, but I still relied on help from Dominique's host dad and host mom to keep me from being totally destroyed in this game which I still don't know the name of.
I'm not sure what exactly my plans are for the next week and/or weekend, either at CZOR or socially outside of it. My guess is fewer birthdays, and more youth work.
On an entirely unrelated note, I've heard a couple of Serbian phrases that I find interesting.
"Pričaj Srpski da te ceo svet razume," or "Speak Serbian and the whole world will understand," amuses not only me but every Serbian who tells it to me, simply because of its blatant falsehood. Before I left, I was reassured that virtually everyone under the age of 40 would speak some degree of English, and this has been pretty much true so far. I have no doubt that I could get by here without ever trying to learn Serbian, which makes me kind of sad. I want to learn the language!
I see the second phrase mostly in a highly abbreviated form in the license plates and in nationalist graffiti. "Само слога Србина спасава" / "Samo sloga Srbina spasava" or "Only unity saves the Serbs" is turned into a set of four "C"s, two forward, two backward, separated by a cross. Originally coined by the Serbian Orthodox Church, the phrase and symbol represent Serbia on its coat of arms and flag, but when used commonly, they also carry strong nationalist connotations. What amazes me most is that this symbol can be traced back to the Byzantine era.
It struck me that if we had a group of sixty Muslims carrying a flag and shouting "Allahu Akbar" in the United States, the media would freak out about it. Here, it's not even news.
